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Round 3!!

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New ankle bracelet for my sissy boy!

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befemininenow:

Say you found this dress online and you really love the overall style of it. Great! If you’re like me, you would say “F it! I’ll buy the dress and I’ll wear it how I like!” and move on with your life. That should the end of this guide, right? Except, there is one little problem: not everybody thinks this way. Those who look for the best matching outfits aren’t just searching to fit their style, color, or personality. It also has to do with their body type. If you’re in that situation, this guide may help you out.

Body shape

Believe it or not, there are many different types of body shape (up to 10). However, the most common tend to be the following (in no order):

1. Rectangle- Even distribution on shoulders, hips, and waistline
2. Pear/Triangle- Wide hips, well-defined waist, small shoulders
3. Hourglass- Near-exact hip and shoulder measurements, thinner waistline
4. Inverted Triangle- Broader shoulders, narrower hips, little waist definition
5. Apple/Round- Broad shoulders and big bust, thin legs and hips

Many transgender women have the inverted triangle body shape due to several factors such as genetics, bone structure, and age. However, your body shape may also change over time due to a rebalancing of hormones, body fat, and even lifestyle. While you can’t change your bone structure, you can change your body definition through exercises.

Body proportion

Here is something you may find useful if you’re looking to customize your look. Body proportions are unique to every individual and play a factor on clothing and to some extent, accessories such as jewelry. For instance, you may find the skirt you bought looks either too long or short. There are a few areas where to measure your body proportions such as wrist length or neck size. But the best way to improve your dress type is by following the “golden ratio rule” of dividing your body into three:

The way this is read is you’re either one-third top, two-thirds bottom, or you’re two-thirds top, one-third bottom. Once you get more knowledge, you can go upwards even eighths! But for now, the focus is on these two outcomes.

The two-thirds top, one-third bottom words well with long dresses:

while the one-third top, two-thirds bottom works well with more casual clothing:

Body measurements

Now that we got a few problems out of our way, it’s time to figure out what measurements you have. The best way to find out is by using a mirror and a soft measuring tape for body. Measure all the crucial parts of your body, which are the waist, hips, shoulders, and bust. This will determine the type of body you have and have a better idea on what length you will need to try out your clothing of choice.

Shoe size

One thing very important about an outfit is choosing footwear. Although you can use your old Converses with your flared jeans, you’re certainly not going to use them with a ruffled dress. You’re definitely going to want heels or flats! Unfortunately, women’s shoe size are not exactly the same as men. But don’t give up! Fortunately, there are women’s size conversion charts that help you choose what shoe size you need.

To find out your measurements on your own, grab at least two blank pieces of paper, a pencil or pen, and a measuring tape. Place your foot firmly forward and carefully trace around the outer area of your foot. Repeat this with your other foot. Once finished, grab your measuring tape and measure from your highest point to your lowest on both sheets. Measure the width as well. If both feet measure close to 10.5, your women’s size is a 12. However, due to a difference in manufacturing based on shoe brand, as well as shoe type like pumps, the average recommended size is at least 2 inches above your actual size. For those living in other countries that don’t use the US measuring size, I left a chart that shows all the possible measurements you may use to convert your shoe size into women’s size.

What to wear based on body type

Since not all clothing is made for everyone, it’s time to list what is considered the “ideal” clothing choices based on body type. Note that these are opinions from my source’s authors. IMO, the pictures below each suggestion are a better opinion. Your are free to choose your type of clothing.

Rounded or apple shapes fit best with monochrome colors and make the person look more “fit”.

Pear or triangle shapes look more balanced with decorative accessories on top while keeping the bottom more plain.

Rectangle shapes tend to have more volume with a waist belt while pleated pants give more volume on hips.

Hourglass shapes look best when wearing bodycon dresses and cardigans to emphasize volume in their waistline.

Inverted triangle shapes pull off the wide leg pants and fitted top combo the best.

For a much more comprehensive guide for each body type, I highly recommend reading The Concept Wardrobe’s guides. It gives more details on what to wear and how to choose the best combinations. Link is provided here: https://theconceptwardrobe.com/search?query=body+frame

Tips on what to wear

Now that you reached this point, I’m pretty sure you’re excited to try out what your heart desires. However, before you go out and buy that two-piece dress, I recommend researching and observing the type of clothing women wear today. Believe it or not, people will judge based on your way of dressing, from background to social status to age. A simple look like bodysuit and jeans may look perfect on you and blend you in with the girls, but something like a hot pink bodycon will make you stand out, and most likely not in a good way. So how would you choose something that blends you in with society, but also be comfortable at the same time? Here are some tips and pics:

1. Find clothing that “feels” feminine. In other words, buy clothing that “feminizes” your body, such as tops that make your shoulders look shorter, wrap dresses that make your waistline shorter, and skirts that make your hips look wider.
2. Find the best colors based on skin tone and hair color. For instance, try out warm colors such as orange if your skin tone is warm.
3. Dress sexy, but never go too revealing. Seriously, have some respect to yourself. But if you really want to go out wearing, for example, a two-piece outfit, wear one that looks stylish and flatters your body in a great way.
4. Use accessories that fit and blend well with your body. Large jewelry goes well with larger frame, small jewelry fits with smaller wrist, and so forth. Don’t forget the purse! It is absolutely necessary now that you’re wearing pocketless clothing. Choose one that fits your taste and needs.
5. Bras and undergarments are necessary to wear now. As you further into your transition, your breasts will start growing and it will become more difficult and uncomfortable going out braless. Start out with a brassiere, then move on to a fitted bra as they become bigger over time. As for down there, I would use boy briefs as they’re similar to boxers. Although HRT will cause it to shrink, it does not make it disappear. If you must hide it, use a gaff or a tuck, but do not use chastity belts (Seriously, stay away from that unless you’re really into that thing). 
6. Optional: use waist shapers or corsets to slim down waist. Hip enlargement pads will also give your narrow hips and butt much needed volume. Breast forms can also give you an idea how big you want them in the future.

Fashion sense

But the most important part of choosing clothing as a trans girl is to wear whatever suits your taste.

For instance, are you more into the traditional and simple feminine aesthetic? Cottagecore may be for you:

But what if you’re the rebellious type that prefers to defy tradition? Well, maybe the alt-girl fashion is for you:

Maybe you’re the type that changes clothing based on season. So if you’re a summer-season type of girl, you’re definitely going for an outfit like this:

How about if you’re into the gym? Clearly your goal is to be like this:

Are you into business casual? There’s also a pic for that:

(The girl in the pic is also transgender! Her name is Suzi Hunter, better known as The Sphere Hunter.)

But we also can’t forget cosplay, either!:

(Cosplayer is Eden the Doll, a trans woman cosplayer! Picture belongs to Geo Leon.)

You’re probably the party type who loves some action:

Casual wear can also be tasteful and attractive too:

There’s so much to pic, but each style says a lot about what type of woman you are.

Where to buy clothing

If you’re interested in finding the right clothes for you, check out places that are especially gender-inclusive. As I’m based in the US, clothing stores such as Target are a good start while higher-end chains such as Nordstrom and Macy’s may have a better variety to choose from. If you’re a thrifty shopper, your local outlets, discount stores, and thrift shops have a surprising amount of great clothing for affordable prices. Although online sites like Amazon, Shein, and Zara have affordable and appealing clothing, many of these brands also have ethical concerns that overshadow their reputation. Dubbed “fast fashion”, they are a source of scrutiny among fashion fans and I would personally avoid them if possible. If you really need something affordable and new, I highly recommend purchasing through discount and thrift stores.

If you’re in need of safe undergarments, check out Urbody. They have clothing suitable for trans people, non-binary, and other identities, varying from binders to tucked leggings. They are founded by trans and non-binary people and use ethical practices and living wages for their workers. If you’re interested in checking their site out, here is the link to their page (I am not sponsored by them): https://urbody.co/

Conclusion

The whole point of this guide is to help you pick the proper clothing and accessories as a newly-out girl. I made this guide since there doesn’t seem to be many that are detailed. Keep in mind I’m still learning about female clothing as I am still in the first stages of transition myself. If anyone would like to add more info that is missing or provide any corrections, please reblog and add more helpful tips as it would help trans girls, trans women, non-binary, and anyone else that desires to wear affirming clothing. Please refrain from using any hurtful language if you’re doing so. Thank you and hugs!

Links to sources:

• https://www.healthline.com/health/women-body-shapes#why-shape-fluctuates
• https://www.thestylatude.com/post/the-most-common-body-shapes-for-women-and-how-to-find-out-yours
• https://theconceptwardrobe.com/build-a-wardrobe/inverted-triangle-body-shape
• https://www.thestylebouquet.com/2020/02/17/5-most-common-body-shapes-for-women/
• https://dressedformyday.com/how-to-discover-your-body-proportions/
• https://gabriellearruda.com/how-to-dress-better-female-body-shape/
• https://m2fguide.com/how-to-pick-clothes-if-youre-transgender-or-crossdressing/
• https://feminizationsecrets.com/mtf-clothing-tips/
• https://www.instagram.com/p/CHBk9v0J_WO/
• https://www.transgendermap.com/social/clothing-accessories/
• https://apexfoot.com/shoe-sizing-chart/
• https://www.glamourboutique.com/crossdresser-fashion/guide-male-female-shoe-sizes-33255#:~:text=Minimize%20the%20chance%20of%20having,11%20in%20a%20women’s%20shoe

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Diet (feminization task #4)

now that we’ll be tucking and wearing panties 24/7, it’s time we started a more feminine diet, as that combined with more restricted blood flow down there should cause a nice feminizing effect. I know most guides would tell you to start shaving about now, but that’ll be much easier to keep up with if we first work on getting more feminine hair.

For our feminine diets we will want it to consist mainly of 3 things, estrogens, progesterone, and an anti-androgen.

Number one thing we will want to add to our diet is soy. Tofu is best for this, this stuff is packed with phytoestrogens, if you can’t get yourself to eat straight up tofu, I would recommend something like miso. I eat miso 3 days a week to make sure I’m packing enough phytoestrogens.

Another great food for estrogen is lentils, I make sure to have it once every weekend.

you will also want to up your seed intake, most noteworthy being sesame, and flax. What I recommend is getting a pack of single serve hummus cups, not only is it packed with sesame but it is also made with chickpeas which will also give you a nice boost. I recommend having this daily if you can as a snack with some flaxseed crackers.

you will also want to eat more fruit, try having watermelon, raspberry, strawberry, and pomegranate throughout your week. This will give you a nice boost of estrogen.

you will also want to have more nuts like Almonds and Walnuts specifically as these are really high in progesterone. I’d recommend cutting out milk and try going with almond milk from now on, add some to your coffee every morning, and snack on a few almond butter cups or chocolate covered walnuts.

you will also want more carrots for the beta carotene, I’d recommend occasionally swapping out crackers with carrots for your daily hummus.

cucumbers are great for skin health as well, I recommend slicing a couple and add to a pitcher with water and fresh mint leaves, and change it out every three days. The fresh mint will also work as an anti-androgen and block testosterone.

I’d also recommend the brand Simply Gum, get packs of their spearmint flavor to keep testosterone levels in check. Be sure to chew 2pieces twice daily

we will also want to drink green tea daily as this can also help block testosterone.

for herbs, be sure to get in some rosemary and saffron. I like to get my fill by adding some to a bowl of chicken broth to sip on any day I’m not having my miso.

Also important to note, no red meat! 😤 This will increase testosterone levels. It will be best to avoid meat as much as possible. When having meat, try to stick to salmon, shrimp, or the occasional white meat chicken.

All this combined with the tucking should start giving a nice feminizing effect and may cause you to gain some weight. Which will give you the perfect excuse for what we’re about to do in the next task! 😉

candiid-caniine:

what’s your edgeslut level?

✨ Level 1: drippy baby - you edge for awhile each time you want to cum~ you watch your usual porn. it feels so good! maybe it’s getting a little longer each time? there’s just no way you could go overnight! unless…

✨ Level 2: perverted prince/ss - you like how needy you’re starting to get 💕 your taste in porn is getting a little more degrading…anytime you think about it during the day, your clit/dick starts throbbing. just one more day, and then you’ll cum. probably…

✨ Level 3: depraved darling - you’re starting to crave…permission 💗 you’re edging to edging porn now, scrolling through denial tumblr. you’ve found yourself trying to look dumb and sexy when you edge, spreading your legs more, maybe sticking your tongue out. you’ve even submitted a few anon asks or texted your partner begging permission to cum. sometimes you cum anyway, other times you wait. it feels good to get permission, but it’s scary: sometimes it feels better to be told no…

✨ Level 4: gooning goner - you don’t know if you want permission anymore 💋 it’s been weeks now. are you even still keeping count? you’re edging to porn of other people cumming. your holes/dick are constantly leaking, and it’s getting too easy to start with “just one edge” and wake up to find hours have gone by. when you cum or ruin without permission, you start begging to be punished. mantras are constantly running through your head, even when you’re not edging: good toys don’t cum. wetter is better.

✨ Level 5: needy numbskull - you’ve lost the ability to cum without permission~ you’re edging to recordings of people being degraded and punished. you feel so vulnerable and impressionable all the time; it makes you scared even as it makes you feel aroused. it’s hard to think even when you’re not edging. the mantras in your head are starting to change: my orgasms don’t belong to me. i’m more useful when i’m denied.

✨ Level 6: addicted doll - you stop thinking about cumming at all; you stop thinking about whether you should worry about how dumb you’re starting to get. you strip naked and kneel every time you edge, tongue out and drooling, feeling only vague embarrassment. you edge to porn of yourself being punished for ruining without permission, or being forced to ruin. there are still certain things you won’t do, even for the chance to cum, but you debase yourself almost voluntarily for your betters now🧡

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senoraartemisa6:

Conozco tan bien a los fetichistas que me encanta encargarme de ellos

Después de jugar con tu deseo durante toda la sesión, voy a hacer que te corras en mis tacones. Si estoy de humor juguetón, te pediré que me limpies los tacones con la lengua, ¡sólo para complacerme! Lame, te pediré con una voz tan suave que dudarás en negarte a lamer tu propia corrida para mí.

Señora Artemisa

Si eres fetichista, no te prives de ponerte en contacto conmigo, podré entender y adaptarme a tus deseos

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senoraartemisa4:

Te estoy esperando…

¡Y sabes muy bien por qué! Si no quieres seguir siendo virgen, ponte en contacto conmigo!

Señora Artemisa, la empotradora de macho

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